holiday

already back hometown for 6 day,
nothing much can do,
i just watch drama and movie at room.
my laptop already broke, causes me cannot online at room,
if i need online , i need to cyber cafe.....
cyber cafe .... in that place, i can see different style of human.....
some was playing online game, such as dota
some just same as me, just suft internet and chatting
within cc, we have own world without interrupt others,
some of my friends ask me , why i don want work during holiday ?
yes, if i want work , i can easily get job.
however, i choose to start at home...
because if i work , time i spend at home will less n less.....
i want accompany my parent during holiday ... since i not around due to study .......
holiday .... i wish to have wonderful holiday ^^

小故事

小故事一 ]
　　一头猪、一只绵羊和一头奶牛，被牧人关在同一个畜栏里。有一天，牧人将猪从畜栏里捉了出去，只听猪大声号叫，强烈地反抗。绵羊和奶牛讨厌它的号叫，于是抱怨道：“我们经常被牧人捉去，都没像你这样大呼小叫 的。”猪听了回应道：“捉你们和捉我完全是两回事，他捉你们，只是分你们的毛和乳汁，但是捉住我，却是分我的命啊！”
　　立场不同，所处环境不同的人，是很难了解对方的感受的。因此，对他人的失意、挫折和伤痛，我们应进行换位思考，以一颗宽容的心去了解，关心他人。

[小故事二 ]
　　你是你，我是我，你不是我，我不是你，但你把我当成你，我把你当成我，这样就换了位，再思考一下……
　　一对夫妇做车去游山，半途中下车。听说后来车上其余的乘客没有走多远，就遇到了小山崩塌，结果全部丧命。女人说：咱们真幸运，下车下的及时。男人说：不，是由于咱们的下车，车子停留，耽误了他们的行程。不然，就不会在哪个时刻恰巧经过山崩的地点了…… 换位思考的实质,就是设身处地为他人着想,即想人所想,理解至上.人与人之间少不了谅解,谅解是理解的一个方面,也是一种宽容.我们都有被"冒犯","误解"的时候,如果对此耿耿于怀,心中就会有解不开的"疙瘩";如果我们能深入体察对方的内心世界,或许能达成谅解.一般说来,只要不涉及原则性问题,都是可以谅解的.谅解是一种爱护,一种体贴,一种宽容,一种理解!!

人是自私的???

有几个朋友告诉我, 人是自私的~~~

我承认在某些方面人是自私的,
例如,在爱情上,付出并不是无私的,
付出的同时, 我们总希望得到对方,就是自私.......


几天前,
上英文时,
有个同学迟到, 可是要求我让她先, 她说我自私, 不让她,
可是她有没想过,如果她自私,她就不会无理取闹........

我也是有自私的时候,
在爱情上, 在友情上.........

人自私不自私是个人的看过........

untitle

today feel what to write blog in chinese
but when start to write it, figure out alot of pinyin i don know,
what a failure chinese people.........

today view someone facebook,
disclover that person have change alot,
change from inside...... some how happy for that person......
last time i got love that person so much,
hate that person so much,
but today i can view that person facebook
just like viewing straighter profile, without any feel of love or hate .........

today i disclover that what buddism say what correct,
all love, hate , wants and needs just ILLUSION.
all will end of one day ......
the best way is let it go......
who know ... maybe one day u all seeing me at temple as SAMI .....

现在我很幸福

他的手掌有种粗糙的体贴,

他在我需要时候出现身边,

被你伤的那些,崩溃眼泪,

多亏他无私的奉陪,

哪天要是和你真的再见面,

谁都不要再提醒那一段从前,

有些事不面对,

反而安心安全,

你无权再动摇我的世界,

现在我有了幸福,有人照顾,应该知足,你不像他,从不让我哭,

可是我越想投入,越是生疏,抱的再紧,依旧止不住那流失的温度,

现在我不停忙碌,不断让步,想看清楚,你不像他,把我当成全部,

可是爱有时善良,有时残酷,我要如何,爱他像爱你那样义无反顾,

哪天要是和你真的再见面,

我不会提到最後和他的一切,

面对不爱的人,我终於谅解了,

曾经你用无言画的句点,

现在我有了幸福,有人照顾,应该知足,你不像他,从不让我哭,

可是我越想投入,越是生疏,抱的再紧,依旧止不住那流失的温度,

现在我不停忙碌,不断让步,想看清楚,你不像他,把我当成全部,

可是爱有时善良,有时残酷,我要如何,爱他像爱你那样义无反顾

2.30 am of 5 feb 2010

now should be the time to sleep, resting myself,
actually i feel tired but i don want to sleep,
within this few day,
read few person blog saying about true friend/ best friend,
in my world,
i can say don have friend that can share everything,
i will keep some part of myself, example my sadness, my feeling,
maybe i cannot trust people or maybe i lazy to say it out ???
recently i have slowly try to express myself to my friends,
i alway call my friends don think too much,
but i was the person alway think too much,
think about pass, present and future..............

打开窗，望着夜空那淡淡的星光，呼吸着清凉的空气，眼前的一切是那么的自然,那么的美好,那么的纯净，在这样宁静的夜晚永远不会有白昼的喧嚣，我不会觉得辛苦更不会觉得虚伪，在这样清凉的夜晚我的心是火热的，我会觉得孤单却不会感到悲伤,只有在这样宁静清凉的夜晚我才会放松下来，也只有这个时刻我才可以做回自己。

valentine day

14 th of february is valentine day ,
but i never have proper valentine with my love one........
nvr got the chance to try how the feel to celebrate valentine day ......
getting supprise .......
this year valentine day at cny ...
probably just sleep at home ... haiz